You and your partner’s relationship ended. Now, you want your ex back after thinking much about how you still love your previous partner, you start thinking of ways on how to win them back. Has your relationship ended because of a conflict or you just grew tired of each other? Here are the possible ways on how to gain your lost love.
First is, you must analyze the reason for the breakup. Maybe, both of you misunderstood the situation and there is a lack of or complete absence of communication.
Be strong. You must show your ex that you are not that affected too much. Do not show that you are falling apart because of it. Begging, clinging, or any desperate behavior will always repel and further discourage them, instead of attracting and winning them back.
Time is the key. You must give your ex the time to think things over and clear their mind after the breakup. You must not look sad. Go out with your friends and have fun. In that way, you will feel more complete and happy because you see that you can always count on certain friends in times like these. If she or he happens to message you asking you how you are, try replying with light answers or just ignore those messages to make them think that you are busy moving on with your life.
Find something to focus on. Try new things – adventures that you didn’t try when you were together. Focus more on your surroundings as well as on the possibilities with the opposite sex. Try to date the cutest guy or girl in town and make sure that you bump into your ex and try not to pay attention as if you are not affected. In that way your ex will become jealous. However, be careful with the feelings of others because you might end up hurting another person instead.
It is important that you try to find ways to get someone back into your life if you really want to. However, there is a need to look into the very reasons for the breakup before doing things in order to get back an ex. Will it really be worth it? Find out if it is worth all the pain and the risks. If not, maybe someone better will come along. There is no need to die when someone leaves. There may be someone who is far better than that person you are pining for.